So I was cruising bossip.com today (don’t judge me), and I ran across an article with women complaining about things men don’t do anymore. After sifting through several gripes, I ran across a simple one that I could actually understand. This young lady simply said that men don’t call anymore. Correction, ma’am. Men aren’t calling you.
Ladies, let me be real with you. I can only speak for me, but I’m sure some of the fellas will agree with me here. I have no problem talking on the phone. As a matter a fact, if I can talk to you and hold a good conversation with you on the regular, chances are, you rank pretty high in my book. I ONLY date women I can talk to on the phone and in person. The art of conversation is being lost daily in the age of texting, Facebook, and Twitter. If I take you out, and you can’t hold a conversation with me, I doubt very seriously there will be a second.
One other thing…If you’re “talking” to a dude, and all the two of you do is text, Y’ALL AREN’T TALKING! If the extent of your interactions is texting and late-night creeps, Y’ALL AREN’T TALKING! Many guys have discovered that that’s all it takes to get in some females’ pants. Am I knocking that? No. All I’m saying is that if you’re a woman looking for a relationship or something meaningful, make him do more than text you and be at your crib by 1.
I’m generalizing here, but men like the chase. I almost feel stupid for telling you this, but women make the dating rules. Men don’t have much choice but to go along with them if they are really after you and/or what you have to offer. And if it’s not worth it to him, he’ll leave you alone. If you want him to call you rather than text you, tell him…or here’s an idea. Call him and tell him that you actually want to hold a conversation. It’s up to you, ladies.