Everyone’s single these days, but no one’s really single.
Talking. Dating. Kicking it. Hanging out. Friends. Friendlies.
What the F word does that all mean, and when did relations between men and women get so confusing?!
Why are women obsessed with defining or putting a name on the relations between themselves and men?
Confession: I’m as clueless about all of this as you probably are.
So you meet someone, a new friend we’ll say. Ya’ll hit it off, at least you think so anyway. The texting turns into late night phone calls, you get those butterflies every time you see that person’s name pop up on your phone screen, and you start thinking to yourself: this is pretty cool. You go on a few dates.. hold up… are yall dating?! That special friend starts making late night visits, and ya’ll even have spend the night parties. Wait… are ya’ll talking? Is this a relationship? Quit stressin and guessin and have a DTR.
What’s that, you ask? DTR = Determine The Relationship. And let me be real, ladies, you’re probably going to have to be the one to initiate the conversation. We all know that men will do what you let them get away with. Play some of the cards in your hand. Bring it up if it’s pressing on your mind so that you can have PEACE of mind! But, let me warm you, the DTR may not always turn out like you want it to. Say he isn’t interested in anything more than what ya’ll already have? Say he actually want’s more than you do? Well, now you have some decisions to make. Point is, the ball is in your court. The DTR can do nothing but empower you and bring resolution to your life.
Remember girls, play the cards in your hand. USE THE DTR.
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